Divorce is never simple, but it is a lot easier with a reliable team by your side.
Gibson Young strive to make family law more straightforward to comprehend and recognise that each case is unique, requiring tailored support and careful handling.
Our work ranges from high-value and high-profile cases involving complex issues, to limited asset divorces that require a sensible and swift solution.
Our team are experienced in all aspects of relationship breakdown and family matters, as well as financial settlements, child arrangements and Children Act matters, cohabitee agreements and separations (including TOLATA claims) and nuptial agreements.
Our family solicitors are members of Resolution and subscribe to the ethos of trying to avoid unnecessary acrimony for separating couples and in particular, where children are involved; focusing on their best interests with the minimum distress.
We guide our clients through the divorce procedure with compassion and care, assuring them that they have the right group of professionals on their side.
We take up the conversations that our clients are unable to have and provide them with the information they need to confidently make any difficult decisions along the way.
With our assistance, clients successfully navigate the divorce process and move forward in life with renewed strength.
If you are considering a divorce, or would like to find out more about your options, please get in touch with our Family Law department. It is our job to manage divorces swiftly and our aim is to avoid rancor and unnecessary costs.
Frequently asked questions
Read below for our family solicitor's answers to some questions that have been asked frequently;
Q.
I don’t want to ‘blame’ my spouse in the divorce, can I apply for a “no fault” divorce?
A. Previously there was only one ground for divorce in the UK and that is that the marriage had ‘irretrievably broken down’.
The person applying for the divorce (‘the Petitioner’) was required to set out one of five reasons (known as ‘facts’) when making the application. These facts were most recently: adultery; unreasonable behaviour; desertion; separation of two years and your spouse agrees in writing; or separation of at least five years.
In April 2022, a sweeping new law came into force, so called, no-fault divorce. This allows couples to divorce without having to assign blame to either party. There are five steps of the no-fault divorce application process as follows;
1. Prerequisite Conditions
- Have you been married for over a year?
You will be unable to begin divorce proceedings until you have been married for over a year.
2. The Divorce Application
- Has your marriage broken down irretrievably?
Under the old regime, couples wanting to divorce had to rely on one or more “facts” to evidence that their marriage had irretrievably broken down. Three of these facts were fault-based (adultery, unreasonable behaviour and desertion), and two facts related to periods of separation – namely, two years if both parties consented and five years without consent.
However, it is now no longer necessary to assign fault. Consequently, this has helped couples avoid the acrimony that sometimes previously developed when one spouse had to ‘blame’ the other for the relationship breakdown. This has also enabled couples to press ahead with divorce proceedings, rather than waiting for two years to pass so that they could avoid relying on a fault-based fact.
Although many have welcomed the change, it has been said that some parties feel hard done by, by the fact that they can no longer blame their partner for their divorce. In some ways, the old system provided a spouse with the satisfaction of exposing their spouse’s indecencies to the Court.
Does your spouse agree that your marriage has broken down irretrievably?
If yes, you can make a joint application, together with your spouse, to the Court for divorce. If not, you can make a sole application for divorce.
You can apply for a divorce online or by post, with the applicable Court application fee being £593.
3. Responding to the Divorce Application
Joint application
Once the divorce application has been issued, if you have jointly applied to the Court, you will both need to submit an “acknowledgement receipt” to the Court.
Sole Application
If you made a sole divorce application, your spouse will have to complete an “acknowledgement of service” within 14 days confirming that either (i) they agree with the divorce or (ii) they intend to dispute the divorce. Before responding to an application, it would be sensible to seek legal advice.
Disputing a divorce application
If your spouse disputes the divorce, they will need to complete an “answer form” confirming their reasoning. Please note that your spouse must have a genuine legal reason such as (i) the Court does not have the jurisdiction to entertain the proceedings; (ii) the marriage is not valid or (iii) the marriage has already legally ended. They cannot object to the divorce simply because they do not want it or wish to delay the process. If your spouse notifies the Court that they wish to dispute the divorce but do not complete the “answer form”, you will be able to proceed with your divorce application.
4. Conditional Offer
You must wait 20 weeks after your divorce application has been issued before applying for a conditional order. A conditional order is a document that confirms that the Court does not see any reason why you cannot divorce. If the judge approves your application, you will be sent a certificate, which will tell you the time and date on which you will be granted a conditional order. This is the halfway stage of your divorce application.
This 20-week cooling-off period is intended to give parties time to enter into financial discussions and seek to reach a settlement on the same.
Please note that whilst the divorce application is separate and distinct to matters concerning children and matrimonial finance, a judge will be unable to approve an Order regarding your matrimonial finances until you have your conditional order.
5. Final Order
Following a conditional order, you have to wait 43 days (i.e. 6 weeks and 1 day) before you can apply for a final order. The final order legally ends your marriage and is the point at which you will go from being “married” to being “divorced”.
Q.
How can I try to limit my costs during my divorce & settlement?
A.
Although there is no clear answer on how much a divorce and financial settlement (division of assets) might cost, or what the final bill might be, the legal advisors at Gibson Young will ensure that you have a clear understanding of the likely costs from the outset of your case.
As in most firms, the solicitors and legal advisors at Gibson Young usually charge on an hourly rate basis and depending on the experience of your advisor, this cost can vary. You will be clearly advised of the rates from the outset and once your advisors understand a little more about your specific case, they can give you more detailed estimates for your individual matter.
There are certain circumstances where (i.e. if you are the petitioner in the divorce), you can seek costs or a contribution to costs from your spouse but usually the legal costs shall be borne by each individual. You should also be aware that certain costs, such as disbursements (costs for court fees; other specialists or experts etc.) will be required from you prior to the expense being incurred, but again your specialist advisor will explain this to you in detail and keep you apprised throughout your case.
You can try and limit your costs throughout your case by assisting your legal advisor with as much information as possible as and when it is required. Also, generally speaking, the more that you can agree with your ex either directly or through other means (i.e. with the assistance of family; Mediation or alternative dispute resolution), the more likely you will be able keep your legal costs down. In short, trying to keep acrimony to a minimum will be beneficial to you in relation to costs and being pragmatic in trying to reach a settlement is prudent.
It may be that you and your ex are able to settle matters relating to finances and the children yourselves and you just seek advice on the fairness of such agreement. The legal advisors at Gibson Young can advise you, negotiate amendments or draw up agreements and applications to the court to formalise the settlement to protect you in the long term. It is never advisable to leave matters (especially in respect of the finances) unresolved, as this could have massive implications for you in the future. A formal court order is almost always required, even if simply to ensure that no future claims are made.
In other cases, prior to starting the process of divorce, you may require legal intervention to deal with your spouse being uncooperative or dishonest; i.e. ‘hiding’ money or dissipating assets to avoid division on divorce. We will advise you on how best to deal with this and ensure that you receive robust advice to obtain a fair settlement.
Gibson Young can help you move forward with your divorce, and always work with you to help find the best solution in your individual circumstances. If you are considering a divorce, or would like to find out more about your options, please get in touch with our Family Law department on 020 7924 2919
or family@gibsonyoungsolicitors.com.